unspecifiedWINNING IN RELATIONSHIPS; Have you ever been in a relationship that you thought was just great and then the person stopped calling, stopped coming by, and stopped seeking you out. You begin to reason within your mind that they have an issue or there was something that you did. Perhaps you don’t get along with them as well as you thought. The truth of the matter is; it requires a force within to pursue. Simply put, making a decision to stay to yourself, or do whatever you love to do, is easy. Extending yourself can be a very difficult task.  It looks flawless for some because they have practiced.

There are many areas in our life that demand more of us than what we think we have to give. Some things require finance; some things require assets that we don’t necessarily possess, other things, require help. For those particular things, the reality is, we can’t do it by ourselves we need others input. What you can do is, establish and create great relationships.  You can do this by answering the phone, responding to a text, letting someone know how much you care, or even sharing your gifts and talents.

There are so many personalities out there in the world. There are those that obviously we mesh well with, and yet, there are others that may rub us the wrong way.  This is no different than the pearl that requires the rubbing of sand (friction) to be perfected. Those relationships where the person agrees with everything you say and, they want to do whatever you are doing, generally do not expose you to greater.  It’s the challenging relationships where the contradiction comes in that one should thrive for.  When seemingly people are the opposite of maybe who you are, or when a person does not necessarily agree with everything you’re saying.  These relationships force you to dig deeper in order to endure.  While they can be a struggle, ultimately they are rewarding.  Yes, they may require more work and one may have to extend themselves beyond themselves to make the relationship work.  But, relationship building is a choice. Your ability to get along and to create great relationships is based on your ability to love unconditionally. Give yourself permission to WIN IN RELATIONSHIPS! I HAVE…..



JOIN ME TOMORROW MORNING AS WE DISCUSS HOW YOU CAN ENHANCE YOUR LIFE BY CREATING VALUABLE FRIENDSHIPS. #347-996-5568 AT 8 AM EST – (Me, God & A Cup of Coffee) will help you find the confidence and strength to shed the excess excess weight (unncessary life issues) and live the life you were created for. There are many things out there that promise to change your life; Through connecting and sharing with other women we discover who we are, discover our strengths and confront life head on. In doing so, with I.M.P.A.C.T. (Irreversible Motivation Persuaded and Causing Triumph) we change our life and we can change the life of our sister . … All women wish they had things they can do better, or do at all. We all experience times when we feel we are alone in our endeavors.

Source: FRIENDSHIPS DON’T JUST HAPPEN – CREATING MEANINGFUL CIRCLES 03/23 by Me God and A Cup of Coffee | Women Podcasts



THERE’S GOT TO BE MORE – This morning I wanted to post “there’s got to be more” but felt you would hear the uncertainty in my penmanship concerning next. Now I know why they call it the five (5) year itch. However, I don’t think it actually happens in the 5th year. I think the itch happens when you’re entering the 5th year.  There are 4 seasons in a year.  Each season represents a turn, a change. Winter is our cold but sterilizing period. Spring is our creative and launching period. Summer is when we are in our fullness and fall is when all that can’t stand what’s to come, falls off.  At least this is my take on the 4 seasons. Once you have experienced all of this where do you go?  The reality is, winter starts again and, once again you endure a cold and sterilizing period. A period, by the way, that is much needed if you are to be your authentic self (rid of free radicals). It’s the greatest time to be in touch with your creator and to be healed. What makes me nervous is that, I also know change is inevitable. You sense greatness and what God has for you but, you fear responsibility, the what if’s and more. Stop listening to the voices and move with the season. THERE is where the fullness of the Godhead bodily (the full of God) is revealed #sheddingtheweight #RWRTLive



THIS TO SHALL PASS! Have you ever noticed that some people are purposed to make you quit. Don’t give up. They secretly envy you and think you don’t know it. Don’t allow people to keep you from your gtreatness. Being great is as simple as showing up, and being your authentic self. Be the best version of you that you can be. I have shared this on my show, and I will share it again. Fine a reason. Find the motivation in everything that you do. It’s not uncommon to have a blanket motivation for life, but what has helped me to get from one place to the next, to continue, is to find the motivation in whatever project I’m doing at that moment. Don’t let others distract you from purpose. You will  never truly respect yourself until you have finished something. When you can continue through blood sweat and tears, you have become unstoppable. Take it from me, I know what it is to quit, and I now know what it means to be unstoppable. DON’T QUIT. FIND A REASON! #Sheddingtheweight #LIVE